Finding Your True Inner Beauty while unleashing your outer goddess....

Inner beauty is the one form we usually fail to recognize as the most important. Inner beauty cannot be surgically altered or injected with silicone, it cannot be transformed by makeup or a new fad diet, nor by the latest fashion trend or your financial state. While all of these might improve some areas of your life it can never truly define who we are as spiritual beings. Inner beauty is not bound by age, race or creed.

True inner beauty does not fade, it only gets better with time.

Why is that?

Because inner beauty is built on a foundation of character, it is the sanctuary of the soul. No one can alter the soul, you can deny it, you can mask it, you can hide from it, but you can never change the truth about who you are. And the truth is, you were born with a capacity for beauty on every level. But in order to experience it, you must first accept yourself for who you truly are. Thus being the hardest step of all. Accepting your flaws and weaknesses can be the very state that has placed you in self denial in the first place, however when you come to the place in your heart where you can stand before yourself and truly say I accept myself for all that I am, the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly, you have found your way to true inner strength and beauty. Peace will enviably follow you because you have lost your need to be something you aren’t in order to please others, or appear as something the world cons eves as more valuable.

External beauty is always heightened when someone is comfortable in their own skin, they allow their inner beauty to shine, they expose the lies of society with the truth of their soul. They do not allow society to tell them who they are. They know they are good enough, they are lovable, accepted, talented, gifted, favored and worthy of their dreams. And when they stumble they choose to rise again understanding that failure breeds success.

What is inner beauty?

It is the champion within us all, to rise, to fall, to seek, to stand, to love or to simply not love. We all have a soul and our soul is the rarest form of beauty. It exists without a need to be anything more then what it is.

We all know someone who can fill a room with their presence, they might not be the best looking, nor the smartest or even the richest, but they are the most spirited. Why? I believe it has a lot to do with inner beauty. They have removed the mask that most of us hide behind. The mask that we feel will help us to fit in, or sound important or give us an advantage. Inner beauty says, I’m good enough just as I am and I’m not afraid to be myself. We all deep down inside know this inner voice, this inner being which tries to expose itself, and when we let down our guard and allow this being to shine we feel at peace within ourselves, but insecurity and fear can cause us to run for the hills, forcing our being back into seclusion. Learning to accept and become comfortable with our true inner selves should be the quest of our existence. You are the only person you can be sure you will spend your entire life with, shouldn’t you learn to accept and adore yourself, instead of judging and sabotaging your beautiful being with negative self talk and hurtful comments about who you should be or could have been, or simply never will be.

Picture the last time you felt really beautiful. You felt you could accomplish anything. You looked in the mirror and what you saw made you feel alive. What did that look like? Where were you? What were you doing? And most importantly, would you like to experience that again?

What could you do right now that would bring you closer to that experience? Is it as simple as a new haircut? Gaining control of your nutritional values? Hitting a gym 3-4 days a week? Learning some new makeup trends? Cleaning out your closest? Speaking more positive affirmations to yourself? Learning to focus on the things you want, instead of the things you DON’T want?

I believe it’s possible to have the inner beauty of ones soul mirror our outer beauty. The more you choose to take care of yourself the better you will feel about yourself, not simply because you will look better, but there is an innate sense within each of us to care for our inner and outer beings. One does not exist without the other. You will always have a yearning to become a whole being. Servicing the self as a whole, lacking in nothing. You can spend all your time building a perfect appearance, and still lack any real depth within, just as you can become a selfless being who looks like they just stepped out of a time machine.

Why is the beauty industry so huge?

I believe it’s because people want to feel good. People want to look their best. We want to experience the depth of progression within ourselves. We want to live life to fullest. We are always on a quest for the discovery of infinite possibilities within new trends, styles, and fashion forward movements. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be beautiful. It’s who we are. It’s in our nature. We are driven by the desire to allure, attract, hunt, catch and conquer. Women love to allure a man just to watch his head spin, just as a man loves to be allured by a beautiful women.

But what is beauty?

Well that can be measured through many different scales. We’ve all heard the saying “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” and that statement is very true. But no matter what we perceive as beautiful we never fully experience it until we are in alignment with our true selves. If we see our self as beautiful, that we will be. To align with anything less is to rob the soul of it’s right to exist, for it does not know how to be anything less, so you must first numb your being, then desensitize yourself in order to make the agreement that you are indeed NOT the true form God created you to be, there by assaulting your dearest friend; yourself. Why go through all the effort? Why not first agree with the truth, you are beautiful on every single level, I mean if you’re going to spend the time strewing over it, you might as well concentrate on something that will benefit you.

It is in our best interest to ask ourselves, what have I done to love myself today? How can I support myself in reaching my goals? You wouldn’t choose to be friends with someone who constantly put you down, or told you your dreams were impossible, so why would you consistently make agreements that puts yourself down? Shouldn’t you defend the ones you love?

What is the job of a stylist?

Well it's obviously not to be your councilor, but to help you become that vision of beauty. To help you uncover your outer creative self. It’s amazing what a simple makeover can do. It can take years off of someone’s appearance, or cause a beautiful feature to stand out, it can bring a new sense of style or emote a feeling of radiance within. The important thing is to allow yourself to experience new trends, to step outside of your comfort zone, don’t assume you know everything about your personal style, it’s good to let a professional guide you in a new direction, it keeps you feeling young, stylish and trendy. Changing your hair color, going shorter, going longer with extensions can literally create a sense of self in almost hours. I’ve seen it time and time again. As silly as it may sound a new look can give you a renewed confidence to accomplish new opportunities. The older you are, the better it is to stick with current trends as it helps to keep you looking younger as you simply fail to date yourself with a hairdo from the ‘GOOD OLE DAYS’. Try not to get stuck in past trends, branch out, visit a makeup artist at least once a year so you can experience new looks, try adding some highlights to brighten your face, give yourself the gift of style.

Now I can’t change the way you feel about yourself on the inside I can only encourage you to take care of your health, your inner being and your outer appearance by making healthy choices. My gift is to expose you to the possibility of current trends, helping you to look your best and feel your best. From experience I know the better you feel on the outside the easier it is to accept who you are on the inside and vis versa. Remember one does not exist without the other. You must be in alignment.

I encourage you today....

To challenge yourself, accept yourself, believe in the infinite depth of your inner and outer beauty. You are the image of the world you create. The way you present yourself to your environment is the way the world will perceive you. Your actions will always mirror your experience. So give way to new possibilities. Allow life to flow from within.

This is your day to become the best version of you!

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